Time and tide wait for none!
No one and nothing wait for anyone. It’s going to be a year almost now. The whole earth revolved around a complete tour.
Just like a flash of light, the whole year and its actions floated in front of my eyes.
No one can take back what has gone past. Those days gone lost, and the situations all shattered my life apart.
Getting used to certain things is not always the escape plan. But sometimes, it makes people feel as though that is the one transit van.
Nothing or no one could cover-up for this void inside. It feels like a hollow vessel kept aside for no purpose at all.
It is so easy to scold or yell or shout at someone. Be it with or without reason, and to anyone that can be. Be it a stranger walking in the road or your domestic help coming late in morning hours.
But showing love and affection is all that takes time. It takes thinking, lots of it, and takes days to happen after all. People think and keep thinking about whether they are correct to hug someone. That might help the person heal all her broken pieces at once.
Seeing the irony makes me laugh. They don’t even think twice before yelling at someone be it in anger or be it with irritation. They don’t even hear at times what they say to others.
It’s true situation might not have been at its best. But we can at least not make it worse by adding misery to it. Right, can we all agree with this?
I have never in my life heard people being reluctant in saying to someone, “Who are you to stop me?
You are bad,
You should change,
With this habit, you won’t be able to survive, etc”.
The worst is in anger I have even seen people say, “You go away from me” or even better, “You deserve to die,
Go and die”
and whatnot.
But always I have seen and heard and even felt it that they reluctance and have doubts or a question mark in saying,
Hey, It’s Friday, can we start a little late?
Can we go out for coffee?
Can we go home together?
Can you spend this weekend with me?
Can we have lunch together?
Hi, I love you, will you be mine?
Or even
I miss you.
But, yeah like it is told, “Maturity is in excepting what the reality is and moving on in life with what you have. Not like what you wished to have.
Isn’t it?
But do you think, times heals anything.
I don’t think so.
Yeah, it does to things or people that were negative. Making distance from an unhealthy atmosphere heals you both mentally, physically as well as psychologically.
But time does nothing when the only person your only hope in life goes missing.
In such cases, it is not that time heals. More relevant to say would be we get used to it. You get used to the pain, the suffocation, that void, and you no longer live at the present instead you get stuck to those memories of his that were the best part of your life at some point.
Going away from a toxic relationship is the best solution.
No doubt.
But,
How do you make your life normal? When his absence is the reason for all the misery and struggle.
No matter how full the world maybe with options. But how do you compensate that special one? For whom you have patiently waited your entire life with even anyone else in this world.
By time heals everything.
