Go beyond

I recently read an article which says
“If you love wasn’t enough for him
what makes you think your tears would matter.”

Thoughtful.
Isn’t it?

You, at times, do things, which you would rather not do or even think about if you were calm enough to anyone. True, you are tired or have had a bad day at the office or maybe your boss is the reason for all headaches and disturbances. For that, I am always ready to sit beside and listen, empathize with you and hear all about it. You have me all the time next to you, trying my best to get you out of that disturbed state of mind by calming you down over a coffee or a warm cuddle.

I really would.

You must be thinking now that a happy end to this story short and sweet.

No, it isn’t.

It is a peaceful imagination or someone’s wish that they wanted to do for their beloved, but never did that happen, or rather, should it be told never would they get such a chance.

It’s something commonly heard from most couples of recent times.

Couples are committed to each other they live-in and have emotional, psychological, physical bonding’s, all true. But they are not there most of the time for one another when in need, to understand each other or help them, be it a mental crisis or a practical issue.
Relations have become more calculative, cold, and casual when it comes to doing something, maybe a work together or a call to simply talk.
Despite all the love, there is still a hollow in most relationships nowadays.

This void is their absence.

That void is something which no money, no diamonds, no shopping, no iMac, no iPad, and no Fitbit can fill in. That is the void deep within us, which we (whoever has been through) have kept locked inside us. In every smile, there is a teardrop.
In every dance step at the dance floor, there is shout out from within.
In every lonely breakfast, there is the hope of company.

That void, makes everything look tasteless, colorless, fades away the warmth, eagerness, excitement. It then becomes all about “Yeah, that’s all how life can be, this is all I can do for the other.”

To all those, who can relate to this feeling;

Life changes so quickly,
We are happy one second and sad or broken the other.
If today after all that we have been through one thing we all will agree is that,
We should Value present times,
Value the person (who is there despite all odds),
Value the precious moments you have or had with him/her,
As they are blessings and you never know when/if you get a chance to relive those again or not.

One thing we all can take back from these days, is that when all this is over,

Maybe we will wait a little longer,
Apologize for all our mistakes (wholeheartedly) and say “I am sorry”
Maybe we will hold on to each other a little more,
Maybe have two more cups of coffee together,
Adore each other a little more,
Understand that pain behind her smiles and
Hug each other a little tighter

Finally
Be there and never take anyone for granted ever again.

A small effort from the author, to spread this small message to one and all who are in pain.

“Love is a paradise and not pain,
Love, love for making you love someone so purely.”