Sunshine

We, humans, are all the same in thinking or saying “I am the only one suffering and I am the only one in pain”. There’s nothing wrong in doing so as we all are to some extent narcissistic in our nature.

But the problem starts, when we begin to hurt ourselves just by overthinking the situations that we face or by building castles in the air, rather than trying to solve the problem by doing a simple work “Talk……..”

Yes, you heard me right, the solution to all your big fat problems or all your reasons for depression or anxiety attacks is just a small thing that we don’t do, i.e. we don’t talk.

Talk, express, speak your heart out, tell how you feeling today and why do you feel so, what you want, what do you think…… Things can become way simpler in seconds once you start talking about it. You will find much relief when you do so, for sure.

At times, you may even realize it was never as big a fuss, as you portrayed it to be, just by thinking in your head. I understand it’s not easy to speak your heart out as you fear of being judged. But hold that thought for a moment, take a step back and think, is being judged the priority of the hour or resolving the issue.

The person matters more than you being right.

You might be the most righteous one in this world but you don’t have anyone with you, what do you accomplish being so right. Humans are created not to be perfect but to be kind, generous, look beyond the imperfections, be affectionate and most of all toLOVE, that how nature is and functions. Imperfections tell where we are and what we can reach, shows us a path to walk forward, gives us a ray of hope for tomorrow, or a reason to keep moving.

There is never an end, every dead-end is a new beginning, in the most beautiful, bright, unique and a better way. Just because, we today are not able to see what’s coming next we get scared, we decide not to talk, we decide to be in ourselves and kill us internally. Be bold for once, as its no harm in talking to our own people, they will never leave you no matter what, they won’t judge and what if they do, I say they did judge you, what’s the worst that can happen if being judged, what do we lose in front of our beloved one’s? Nothing, nothing at all. See the bright side of it, trying to initiate the conversation, solves all your problems, you won’t have that constant headache, tension, anxiety and eventually depression, everything gets resolved and you definitely don’t lose anything.

It’s simple……………..

Noone really knows what special each day has to offer to everyone. As one fine day while having your morning coffee in your usual lazy pajamas and sleepy eyes, you might see your beloved standing in your front door with his car all ready, just to take you out for a ride or maybe spend some beautiful moments with you and LOVE you.

Just you………………………