Walk Alone

Walk alone, until someone who is whole-heartedly willing to walk with you comes and holds your hand. 

Most times, we run behind the person we want to be with, not realizing that by doing so we lose our everything, our importance in their eyes, our self-respect, and peace of our mind. We chase them like they are our only life’s dreams and what they do in return is just throw us away like garbage every single time. We wish, we pray and live exactly how they like but what they think is we are trying to impress him and are getting dependent on him. We smile even when we are in uttermost pain just to hide from him our problems and struggles so that we don’t become an extra burden for him but what comes back as a response is “You will never understand my problem, what do you know about problems and what problem do you have in your life. You always see only from your side and never tried to understand my point at all”.

The real truth behind these incidents or any of these sorts of happenings in life is just a simple one-line description:

The phrase “chase behind the person”, does not mean the literal meaning. It just is a deep, pure feeling inside you, every day as you wake up early in the morning. Since life has not been kind to you at all, you just have a small hope blended with him, as he has come in your life, and today he is with you, may be sleeping beside you or staying miles away from you, no matter what but “He is there with you today”. So, today might be somewhat special, he might have some time out from his hectic work schedule for me and “just me”. With this undying hope. you try your level best to make the present-day that’s there in front of you, a forever remembered one and get the best out of it so that tomorrow, this day becomes an ever-happy, cherishing and beautiful memories of life and not as pain and hurt like the rest of your life is.

And, let’s be truthful to ourselves for once and answer this question to our soul. Only the truth. 

Why do we do so?

What do we get out of it?

Why do we take so much upon us and all that we receive in return is “Irritated feeling, loneliness, unanswered calls, or at times no calls at all, sleepless nights and never-ending tears.”

The answer to all this is: Because we love that person 

And when you truly love someone, there is no looking behind, there is no logical answer to what we do but only one undying fact that: All you know then is – “The person I love, should never, not even in the worst dreams be in pain or feel hurt or get a single drop of tear in his eyes”.

We all are emotional beings, with the most evolved brain. God has created us will all the traits and characteristics being evolved to the fullest. But, still, we all are distinct in the way we use it. Thus, we all are different.

That’s why sometimes we should take a stand for ourselves not to prove someone that we can walk alone. But, to make him realize,

“Happiness is in making someone feel special,

by giving them a special place in your heart and your life.

But,

Never forget you are also that someone too for that person.“